Sunday, October 21, 2018

Sermon for October 21

The Reading 

2 Samuel 11:1-5, 26-27; 12:1-9; Psalm 51:1-9

1 In the spring of the year, the time when kings go out to battle, David sent Joab with his officers and all Israel with him; they ravaged the Ammonites, and besieged Rabbah. But David remained at Jerusalem. 2 It happened, late one afternoon, when David rose from his couch and was walking about on the roof of the king's house, that he saw from the roof a woman bathing; the woman was very beautiful. 3 David sent someone to inquire about the woman. It was reported, "This is Bathsheba daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite." 4 So David sent messengers to get her, and she came to him, and he lay with her. (Now she was purifying herself after her period.) Then she returned to her house. 5 The woman conceived; and she sent and told David, "I am pregnant." 26 When the wife of Uriah heard that her husband was dead, she made lamentation for him. 27 When the mourning was over, David sent and brought her to his house, and she became his wife, and bore him a son. But the thing that David had done displeased the Lord,

12:1 and the Lord sent Nathan to David. He came to him, and said to him, "There were two men in a certain city, the one rich and the other poor. 2 The rich man had very many flocks and herds; 3 but the poor man had nothing but one little ewe lamb, which he had bought. He brought it up, and it grew up with him and with his children; it used to eat of his meager fare, and drink from his cup, and lie in his bosom, and it was like a daughter to him. 4 Now there came a traveler to the rich man, and he was loath to take one of his own flock or herd to prepare for the wayfarer who had come to him, but he took the poor man's lamb, and prepared that for the guest who had come to him." 5 Then David's anger was greatly kindled against the man. He said to Nathan, "As the Lord lives, the man who has done this deserves to die; 6 he shall restore the lamb fourfold, because he did this thing, and because he had no pity." 7 Nathan said to David, "You are the man! Thus says the Lord, the God of Israel: I anointed you king over Israel, and I rescued you from the hand of Saul; 8 I gave you your master's house, and your master's wives into your bosom, and gave you the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would have added as much more. 9 Why have you despised the word of the Lord, to do what is evil in his sight? You have struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword, and have taken his wife to be your wife, and have killed him with the sword of the Ammonites.

Psalm 51

1 Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions. 2 Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin. 3 For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. 4 Against you, you alone, have I sinned, and done what is evil in your sight, so that you are justified in your sentence and blameless when you pass judgment. 5 Indeed, I was born guilty, a sinner when my mother conceived me. 6 You desire truth in the inward being; therefore teach me wisdom in my secret heart. 7 Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean; wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow. 8 Let me hear joy and gladness; let the bones that you have crushed rejoice. 9 Hide your face from my sins, and blot out all my iniquities

The message

Last week, our reading was from the book of Joshua, ending with a famous, public declaration of faith. After listing the victories and miracles God brought to the people of Israel during their journey to the promised land, Joshua challenges the crowd to serve the Lord and tells them “as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord”.  Joshua was the successor of Moses. Joshua leads the people of Israel to victory over the Canaanites. Through this journey there are great victories, moments of great anxiety, disobedience and repentance.  Joshua directs the people faithfully, as they settle in the promised land. All of his actions are done with an awareness that God is the force behind what is happening.

Today, our reading comes from Second Samuel.  Samuel was one of the major prophets in history of Israel.  After Joshua, the people of Israel were led by a series of Judges, people like Deborah and Gideon, who lead as part prophet, part king, part administrator and part priest.  After decades the people of Israel ask for, argue for and even demand a king (so they can be like their neighbors).  God honors this request.  Samuel is the last of the Judges. He is responsible for the transition from Judges to Kings.  God sends Samuel to anoint Saul as the first king. Saul makes mistakes, becomes arrogant and falls out of favor with the Lord. He is found to be unworthy and Samuel is sent to  remove Saul from power.  God sends Samuel to anoint David as the next king (this is a surprise, David’s brothers are all more “kingly” in age and appearance). Saul will then be killed after a series of conflicts and chases. 

Samuel will die before today’s reading.  His role as prophet, as messenger of God, will be taken on by Nathan. (We have no real idea how this transition happens, Nathan just sort of appears already established in 2 Samuel 7)  This was a vital and powerful role, after all, like Joshua constantly witnessed to, Israel lived because of God’s word and will. Nathan will serve as a counter to King David’s otherwise absolute power. David is considered to the most significant king in the history of Israel, Most importantly for us, he is the one who receives the promise that the Messiah will come from his descendants (news delivered to him by Nathan). This is why Matthew and Luke start their Gospels with the genealogy of Jesus from King David and down the line.  Those Genealogies are rather messy, there are times when this family line is continued through what would be seen as impurities (women, foreigners, people who have acted in ways that most of us would think of as questionable, immoral).    

Today, we hear one of the worst of those messy events, the story of how King Solomon’s mom and dad first met.  Now, I think of how Jen and I first met.  It’s a nice, if not so exciting story.  We were the only people in our church under 30 ( a church she grew up in and I happened to wander into).  We started talking one night during a workshop after we were paired up for a small group discussion.  If I remember it was about spiritual gifts and how we use them. After the workshop, we started emailing each other and then went on our first date.   Now how Solomon’s parents,  David and Bathsheba met, that’s something else. King David is at home during war. (This is a clue that he would do something wrong, the king should have been on the battlefield, with the soldiers defending his kingdom, following his command.) Perhaps this was at the insistence of his generals, who though the danger was too great but either way, David is where he does not belong.  While the army fights, David takes a break from lounging inside and decides to go outside. There he sees Bathsheba bathing.  He likes what he sees and asks his servant, who it is.  If she was not married, David could simply add her to his group of, let’s call them lady friends.  Bathsheba is not single. She is the wife of Uriah the Hittite, a good man, well-known and highly regarded solider, who has served Israel faithfully.  This should have stopped David, but it does not. He decides forget Uriah, I want what I want. David sends messengers to get Bathsheba, David has sex with Bathsheba and she becomes pregnant.

To cover this up, David sends for Uriah, calls him back from battle and asks him some routine questions about the war, soldiers, morale. Tangentially, David mentions, oh since you’re here, why don’t you go to your wife and have sex with her. Uriah refuses, keeping faithful to his promise and fellow soldiers (during active combat soldiers refrained from sex).  David, now desperate to cover up his actions, sends Uriah to the front lines, so he would certainly die in battle. Uriah is killed in the conflict.  David and Bathsheba marry after the mourning time is over. That is how King Solomon’s mom and dad first met,  a story of David abusing power, deceitful actions,  betrayals and disgrace. (for the most part Bathsheba is doing the right thing or more accurately, the only thing she can).      

David does not get away unscathed. Bathsheba’s story will be told.  As David breathes a sigh of relief that he got away with one, the prophet Nathan appears.  God will not allow what happened to her to go away. David fears no man really, but Nathan speaks God’s word, the word that put Saul in power, the word that took Saul out of power, the word that anointed David and most pressing, the word that could remove David.  Now, like Bathsheba has been throughout the story, David is in a position of powerlessness.  Nathan confronts David, sharing that story of the slaughtered lamb, that enrages David, only for him to be told, your that guy who did that awful thing. Nathan announces the consequences of David’s sin but David will remain king.  Nathan appears again later, in support of David and Bathsheba's son, Solomon.  It is clear that God has accepted David's confession and plea for forgiveness. (that is why todays reading is paired with 
Psalm 51)    

Today, the news is filled with stories of powerful men who are accused of acting like David, abusing their authority for sexual purposes. This is not the story of one man’s sin and one woman’s victimhood. This is not a story of how to handle abusive leaders or how to deal with the aftermath of abuse. This story shows sin does not stop God’s action in the world.  From horror there is joy, from death there is life. God’s will is going to get done, despite us and our sin.

In this ancient story, we do see things that matter today. Without Nathan intervening, Bathsheba’s story would have been covered up and never told.  There was not much of a me too movement back then but we hear God speaking for the voiceless. Blaming the victim is nothing new.  People in some traditions deny this happened (under the belief that prophets are pure and would never do this). For others, Bathsheba is portrayed as a seductress, as tempting sweet, pure and innocent David, as constantly bathing where she knew she could be seen by him until he gives in to her advances. She saw a chance to move up in the world, to ditch her husband, a good, loyal but not like king rich guy and move into the palace.  .

We have no reason to think Bathsheba was asking for it. She is a victim, a body other people exercise control over, a woman trying to make the best of an awful situation with no right answers Interperters and added details that pull us away from that do not come from the story in the Bible.  They reflect our denial of sin, our attempts to fit everything into our own world views and our desire for heroes.  It exposes the difficulty we have with admitting King David was wrong, human, that he lets his greed, desire and selfishness rule his actions.  We are not defined by the worst things we have ever done, not to God at least.  In what David did and our attempts to explain it away, this story is about sin, proof that we all are desperate to not wake each morning saying:  Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions.  Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin.  For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me.

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